If we focus on one main thing in life expecting that to bring everything else we will become disillusioned. I believe that first focusing on our Creator will eventually lead us to a proper balance in life. After all, we didn't create ourselves, we had a creator. If we have a creator, then he must know us completely and want us to 'find' ourselves, not the fluffy 'finding' ourselves but, really find out how we work.
I think if we balance our faith, work, family, friends, entertainment, and all the other things we have before us in life, we can be much happier. Life is a challenge, we can get through it together with joy.~b